Bottom does not equal Female

Doing research on an upcoming radio blog about the Myth of the gay black top I discovered something. Many gay black men did not want to refer to them selfs as bottoms. I though okay and asked why. The answer I got overwhelm me. The answer was " I don't want to people to think of me as a girl. I almost shitted myself I found this to be so funny.

So I pose the question in reverse when did bottom equal woman? There are plenty of couples and one guy is clearly the husband and the other is clearly the wife but you never know what goes down in the bedroom. Just because you like taking it up the ass does not mean you are or even have to be the girl.

So I ask can a bottom be the husband and the top be the wife?

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