Sunday, September 29, 2013
Wednesday, September 25, 2013
Games of the black gay dating workd
http://www.blogtalkradio.com/real-tees-exposed/2013/09/25/the-game-of-gay-life
My friend and I having a KiKi about the games being played in the black gay culture listen and have fun
Monday, September 23, 2013
Saturday, September 21, 2013
Saturday, September 14, 2013
Tuesday, September 10, 2013
Hating on Me
A lot of queen feel as if the whole world is hating on them when someone Is trying to correct a bad behavior. yes my deal child not everything YOU do is right. Instead of attacking the person for their corrections why not try to look a another's point of view. Never being able to grow because you are unwilling to learn from whoever is the teacher at that current mOment i is not a quilty to be proud of
Thursday, September 5, 2013
Real Tees Exposed: Golden Girls
Golden Girls
At first this image of myself and 2 or 3 other grown ass trannies and punks at the age of 60's living in a house together. Yes it wouldn't be what my idea of growing old, but in the end this wouldn't be that bad! At least I have friends, most gay people especial black gay men we do not have friends. We have people in our lives that judge us and bring us down or even build us up, but many black gay men do not have friendships. We as gay people build these false bubble around us, and we choice because we don't trust people to live in lies.
Living in these lies created the false friendships and false relationship build on lies and falsehoods. We do not trust others so we build walls so people can't trust us! We hide things that we feel people will judges us for instead of just being judged and learning from those judgement. Next to your family real friends should have the right to make judgments and your life and be able to tell you how they feel without the backlash, you would give to a stranger. Also we should be able to confide in true friends without the worried of our secrets being exposed and revived.
Friends, like lovers are special and it is hard to find real friends. So if I grow old and have to live life like the golden girls, maybe it wouldn't be that bad because at least I know I have real friendships.
Tuesday, September 3, 2013
Always Right
As gay black and transgender people we are always in a fight to be right. Sometimes being right is our down fall. We don't want to let people prove us wrong because if we can be wrong on any simple issue we can be wrong on anything. Being wrong shouldn't be looked as weakness but a source of strength!
Being wrong allow us a chances of growth, and to learn from prior mistakes. Weakness comes from a places of always known your right even when your dead wrong.
Sometimes trying to be right is the wrong way to get what you want.